Sunday, October 13, 2013

Empowering Formators

Empowering Formators

On 19, September 2013, the Regional CRI Sikkim-West Bengal organised a Workshop on “Religious Formation Today” at Holy Child School, Kolkata. It was a day of introspection for the Formators of various religious congregations’ men and women and to educate, enable and empower them.
Fr. Jeyaraj Velusamy, Jesuit provincial of Kolkata and regional CRI president, welcomed the formators, introduced the theme and explained the importance of Formators’ formation. He emphasised the need for reinventing formative styles and approaches to be effective and efficient Formators to accompany young people.
Fr. Michael Pandian CMF focused on issues concerning Religious Formation Today and emphasised the need for adapting our formation to the modern youth to tap their resources and energies. He presented an alarming situation of modern youth exposed to socio-psycho-religious violence and problems, facing mental and stressful environment. This he did from the biblical-religious, psycho-social and economic perspectives.
Fr. Pandian said, the mind and heart of a youth is craving to achieve target goals as they are living in a competitive world. He exhorted us to offer the late vocation educated youth and working men and women candidates a new direction and orientation.
He also presented a glimpse of modern youth, creating history as they achieve what is impossible in their lives with the power of mind and determination.
He said that different popes have laid foundations to bring youth to the heart of the mission of the church. Finally he used a youth-building paradigm which is known as Iowa model of 4 H namely integration of head, hands, heart and health
In groups we discussed the nature of our youth, how we can attract and form them and make them enthusiastic missionaries.
Br. A.H. Alex FMS in his thought proving talk emphasized the role of Formators as one who receives more than what he/she gives and shared a number of problems both formees and formators face in dialogue or direction. He exhorted that formees be given freedom to express his/her emotions, moods, fears and dreams and urged us to be transparent, open, generous and kind to them.
Finally, he urged us not to look at formees with a fault-finding eye, rather allow them to make mistakes and proposed three personal accompaniment tools namely: instilling love paradigm, Pope Francis surprising the Swiss Guard and Pay $ 500 paradigm.

In groups we discussed the nature of our youth, how to attract them, form them and make them daring missionaries.
Many participants remarked that this was an eye-opening workshop. Sr. Lucy of Helpers said that it has helped her to understand Formation in a better way. Another FC nun agreed that the innovative formation styles need a change of mind set of the Formators.
The day concluded with a future plan to have a workshop on Psycho-sexual integration for formators.
Fr Mourlin Fernando SJ


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